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Can I be an engineer and still dress conservatively?

I'm passionate about maths, physics, and problem-solving and want to be an engineer (I like mechanical and electrical right now), but I worry that the way I dress will limit my opportunities. I dress conservatively, remaining covered and not showing the form. I don’t want to work at a desk all the time, but is loose, flowing clothing permitted on jobsites or around moving machinery? Are there workarounds for someone like me?

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  • Added Tuesday, October 28, 2025 at 1:01 PM

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    Like who would you say helped make you the engineer you are today? I don’t really have anyone around, how do I find other role models besides the list of engineers on EngineerGirl?

    Answers 9
    Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting
    Answered Tuesday, October 28, 2025 at 1:46 PM

    By far, my largest influencers were my teachers which started with my 1st and 2nd grade teacher who taught me that just because I didn’t like doing something, I should still strive to do it the best I could. She knew I could have better penmanship, but ...

    Wendy Sahli, Regulatory Affairs Professionals Society
    Answered Tuesday, October 28, 2025 at 1:41 PM

    Unfortunately, I don’t have a female who helped me get into my engineering role. I had a great male mentor, though, who taught me things outside of my job to give me a wider picture of infrastructure along the way. He expanded my knowledge by doing so ...

    Nancy Post, Boston Consulting Group
    Answered Tuesday, October 28, 2025 at 1:36 PM

    My biggest female influence was definitely my mother. She helped me so much in my career. But it's not in the manner you would think. She only attended school until she was in 8th grade due to her mother dying when she was young. Her two older ...

  • Added Monday, September 29, 2025 at 2:26 PM

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    I'm passionate about maths, physics, and problem-solving and want to be an engineer (I like mechanical and electrical right now), but I worry that the way I dress will limit my opportunities. I dress conservatively, remaining covered and not showing the form. I don’t want to work at a desk all the time, but is loose, flowing clothing ...

    Answers 6
    Amy Devine, QuickFlex, Inc.
    Answered Monday, September 29, 2025 at 2:34 PM

    You will find a job in engineering. The restrictions that we have in jobs are there to keep us safe. You cannot have someone operating machinery while wearing clothing that could get caught. That being said, I am sure that there is an OSHA person who can ...

    Sarah Kurtz, University of California, Merced
    Answered Monday, September 29, 2025 at 2:33 PM

    Conservative dress is just fine for office work and presentations at conferences. However, loose clothing when working near machinery may cause a safety hazard. This should be reviewed in consultation with your Safety Officer and appropriate precautions ...

    Kim Linder, Honeywell FM&T
    Answered Monday, September 29, 2025 at 2:33 PM

    In general, yes! You can dress conservatively. The only exceptions I can think of when you may not have 100% say in the outer layer is when safety comes into play. In a machine shop, or place with moving machinery, you are often required to wear steel ...

  • Added Thursday, March 27, 2025 at 12:16 PM

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    I’m starting to think about college and since it is expensive and a lot of work, I don’t want to regret my decision of what to study. I really like the engineering stuff I’ve done in school so far and think that it could be a good path for me. Are there parts of engineering that you don’t like or that make you regret going into it in the ...

    Answers 9
    Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting
    Answered Thursday, March 27, 2025 at 12:34 PM

    This is a tough question for those of us who have spent our entire career in engineering related fields. Naturally, there are some areas which I loved more than others. In school, I struggled with thermodynamics but excelled at heat transfer which ...

    Una Trivanovic, METAS (Swiss Federal Institute of Metrology)
    Answered Thursday, March 27, 2025 at 12:33 PM

    Engineering is a very broad field so if you study engineering you can choose from a huge variety of jobs which all have pros and cons. I have had some engineering jobs that I didn't enjoy so much and others that I have found very fulfilling! I will never ...

    Answered Thursday, March 27, 2025 at 12:32 PM

    Hello! What a great question. First and foremost, I applaud you for understanding your likes and contemplating career choices while in high school. It will be important in college and class selections.

    Secondly, I wanted to answer your question, “have ...

  • Amber Brown

    Added Wednesday, January 12, 2022 at 10:36 PM

    I am currently majoring in civil engineering with a 3.7 accumulative but math Is my thing and I don't get tired of it. I found that choosing the project management aspect of engineering limits me to be more in charge than doing the technical aspect of things. I want to make a difference in this world, but am starting to worry that engineering is limiting in that retrospect. I want the civil aspect of our world to grow more environmentally conscious but don't find the environmental engineering ...
    Answers 1
    Answered Wednesday, March 19, 2025 at 11:41 AM
    Your love of math and environmental impact within civil engineering is a powerful combination. Consider specializing in areas like:
     * Water Resources: Heavy math, direct environmental impact.
     * Geotechnical: Sustainable materials and modeling.
     * ...
  • Added Friday, December 20, 2024 at 3:09 PM

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    If so, how did you handle it? I am currently thinking about women in STEM and the inequality/underrepresentation we may face. It would be nice to have an inside opinion on the challenges within STEM.

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    Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting
    Answered Friday, December 20, 2024 at 3:22 PM

    I began my engineering education and career in 1978, so the simple answer is yes. It began in college but only in 1 course which was a terrible experience for me and the subject was difficult on top of that. I was too young to realize that I should have ...

    Answered Friday, December 20, 2024 at 3:21 PM

    Yes, I've experienced inequality because of my gender several times, unfortunately. To manage through the inequality I joined a non-profit organization which focuses on the empowerment and advocacy of women and allies within my industry. Through this ...

    Answered Friday, December 20, 2024 at 3:20 PM

    Hi, to be honest early in my career I did face negative comments about my gender when working in a field-based position. Basically, that I didn't know anything and was "just a girl". I was fortunate to have a very supportive male supervisor who advocated ...

  • Added Friday, July 26, 2024 at 3:28 PM

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    I’m a rising 8th grader and I love engineering, especially aerospace engineering, but I don't know if my family would accept me being one. They don’t really get it. How can I make them accept that I want to be an engineer? I know I can’t force them to be proud of me, but I want to try. Especially my younger brothers.

    Answers 13
    Answered Friday, August 9, 2024 at 2:28 PM
     Explain to your family the benefits of a STEM career and how engineering impacts society and everyday life. Share stories of women in engineering and their contributions. Demonstrate your seriousness about becoming an engineer through your actions and ...
    Natalie White, Amazon Web Services
    Answered Friday, July 26, 2024 at 3:57 PM

    You’re right, you can’t force your family to be proud of you. But your career choice is just that - your choice. The benefits of choosing a STEM career far outweigh the risks of your family’s lack of understanding. If you do want to try to convince them, ...

    Donna Hull, Verizon
    Answered Friday, July 26, 2024 at 3:56 PM

    This question really came at the right time and resonated with me. I am 59 years old, and I have been working in the field of computer science, networking, and now telecommunications engineering for 30+ years. I did an interview for the National Academy ...

  • Added Wednesday, June 26, 2024 at 1:26 PM

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    I am 12 years old and I’ve always wanted to be an engineer but in 4th grade I got bullied for wanting to be an engineer as a girl. Do you think I can still be an engineer even though they don’t think so? I don’t want to be bullied. What do I do if I get bullied again?

    Answers 12
    Answered Tuesday, July 16, 2024 at 10:55 AM
    If you have a passion for engineering, you should definitely pursue it. Engineering is a field that requires creativity, problem-solving, and resilience, all of which can be strengthened through overcoming challenges. Remember, many successful engineers ...
    Isabelle Cabana, Collins Aerospace
    Answered Wednesday, June 26, 2024 at 1:40 PM

    YES, you can still be an engineer even though you were bullied for wanting to be one. Bullying for having any sort of interest is bound to happen. It can be quite discouraging and I can’t guarantee it changes as you get older but what I can guarantee is ...

    Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting
    Answered Wednesday, June 26, 2024 at 1:39 PM

    This question resonated well with me as I experienced something similar in my path to being an engineer. You are breaking the "expectation" of what girls are supposed to do. You are also very bright and probably many others are envious of your capability.

  • Crystal Asiaw

    Added Monday, December 26, 2022 at 8:35 PM

    Answers 2
    Julia Lopez, Turner Construction
    Answered Tuesday, May 21, 2024 at 8:56 AM
    I am currently working in Contruction management with my civil engineering degree, and we frequently build LEED and Envision certified buildings. These buildings become certified by making sustainable choices. If you choose to go into construction, you ...
    Margaret Byron, Penn State University
    Answered Wednesday, November 8, 2023 at 11:49 AM
    Hi Crystal-- there are lots of ways!  Some civil engineers focus on infrastructure, like designing buildings, dams, roads, and bridges. They might focus on lowering energy requirements, increasing resilience to natural disasters, or improving integration ...
  • Evan

    Added Monday, April 1, 2024 at 4:18 PM

    I love engineering but I'm a kid and I love computer stuff but just how hard is it.
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    Terita Norton, The Aerospace Corporation
    Answered Monday, April 8, 2024 at 11:58 AM
    Hi Evan,
    
    Engineering isn't as scary as some might think. It does require focus and dedication to your studies but it is also cool to solve problems and create new innovative solutions. If you love computer stuff and exploring how things work I would ...
  • Added Tuesday, September 27, 2022 at 8:33 AM

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    What happens next? How do you handle it?

    Answers 19
    Tina Swangphol, Chevron
    Answered Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at 3:34 PM
    Think of "failing" as just an opportunity to learn.  But you must learn from the situation so that you will not repeat the same mistake.  Then, just brush it off, get up and try again.  Always think that you can do this, and try harder in another way.  ...
    Kristin Sweeney, US Aggregates
    Answered Tuesday, September 27, 2022 at 9:22 AM

    When you fail, which will happen at some point in your career, the most important thing to do is learn from it! Give yourself time to process what happened and what went wrong, then brainstorm ways to mitigate failure in the future. If we treat failure ...

    Linda Schadler, University of Vermont
    Answered Tuesday, September 27, 2022 at 9:20 AM

    I think failure depends on your definition. If you tried something new and it didn’t work – that is not failure. That is exploration or design iteration or learning. There are times that you fail an exam or a course or have a paper rejected. My approach ...

  • Added Monday, January 29, 2024 at 2:53 PM

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    I've been interested in chemical engineering, particularly cosmetic chemical engineering, for some time now. I felt like this pathway would have been good for me as I enjoy science and math and like the lifestyle that it could provide (work, family/life balance, flexibility, hands-on, salary, etc). I'm a little conflicted because I often ...

    Answers 12
    Sandra Hernandez, Chevron
    Answered Monday, January 29, 2024 at 3:20 PM

    If you enjoy science and math, I don’t see why you should stress about taking chemical engineering as a major!

    Engineering, as many other majors, requires hard work, but this doesn’t mean you need to leave your social life behind. Engineering offers a ...

    Bianca Stamps, Chevron
    Answered Monday, January 29, 2024 at 3:19 PM

    While the curriculum involved in pursuing engineering is rather difficult, I have found that it did not make me any less social. In some cases, it made me more social! In my junior and senior years, I worked more in our engineering building with fellow ...

    Answered Monday, January 29, 2024 at 3:18 PM

    This is a fair question and I think a lot of people are scared off from majoring in engineering because of this and also fears of the difficulty of engineering classes. First, I would absolutely recommend you pick chemical engineering as a major, since ...

  • Emma Wilson asked Irene Rexwinkle, Blue Origin

    Added Tuesday, September 12, 2023 at 3:31 AM

    Hi, I'm Emma, and I am interested in becoming an engineer and would like more information about them.
    Answers 1
    Irene Rexwinkle, Blue Origin
    Answered Friday, September 22, 2023 at 3:00 PM
    Hi Emma! The path to becoming an engineer typically includes obtaining a 4-year college degree from an accredited engineering program at a university. Some go on to obtain a 2 year master's degree (to get some more specialized education before starting a ...
  • Added Monday, August 28, 2023 at 4:33 PM

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    How do you deal with hate? Most kids at my school think that I am dumb because of my math grade. I can't do the formulas yet but I can do any other in my head. Please give me some advice. I want to be in IT when I grow up and I don't think I am good enough or smart enough.

    Answers 10
    Kasey Faust, University of Texas at Austin
    Answered Monday, August 28, 2023 at 4:46 PM

    Not every class has to be your best class. You will excel at some topics and not other for may reason such as how the material is taught, whether you have a natural inclination towards that topic, or whatever else you have going on in your life (e.g., if ...

    Kim Linder, Honeywell FM&T
    Answered Monday, August 28, 2023 at 4:44 PM

    Remember that no one is born knowing everything. In fact, we are born knowing nothing and have to learn. Even people who will say mean things to others, have had to learn things at some point. We all have different paths in our lives, learn at different ...

    Wendy Sahli, Regulatory Affairs Professionals Society
    Answered Monday, August 28, 2023 at 4:43 PM

    Great question! I had the same situation.

    I also didn’t do well in math in high school, and I was asked to drop a class because I was failing. After some tutoring, I learned my learning capability was different from others. I am an auditory learner. In ...

  • Added Friday, May 26, 2023 at 10:44 AM

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    I am a student in a small town and I am a member of an engineering club in my school. I am the only girl there and I kind of feel left out. I have tried to communicate with them to make our work more productive, but it seems they are not willing to do so. What should I do? How can I overcome the feeling of not belonging? Is it always going ...

    Answers 11
    Michaela Mueller, Ryan Biggs Clark Davis
    Answered Friday, May 26, 2023 at 11:24 AM

    I also attended a small high school, and I felt excluded by the boys in my engineering classes and clubs. But I was ECSTATIC when I went to college and found other female students who were just as excited about engineering as I was. We stuck together ...

    Delia Contreras, Honeywell
    Answered Friday, May 26, 2023 at 11:23 AM

    Learn to connect with individuals of the team at a personal level. Establish first relationship/friendships based on common likes, it is so much easier to have ‘friends’ or supporters in a team. That has always worked for me.

    Depending on the industry ...

    Donna Hull, Verizon
    Answered Friday, May 26, 2023 at 11:21 AM

    Inclusion is a big hurdle in society in any realm of your life. The good news is that dealing with personalities, bias, and general stereotypes is more openly talked about and recognized in today's society.

    A school club should have a teacher or other ...

  • Added Monday, June 27, 2022 at 10:08 AM

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    I like engineering but don’t want to have to give up lots of other things in my life to work. Do you have to work long hours? Do you have time for hobbies or other interests, or to have a family? Do some kinds of engineers or some engineering jobs have to work more hours than others?

    Answers 21
    Merilyn Chesler, KosherPatterns.com
    Answered Tuesday, May 23, 2023 at 10:35 PM

    I became an engineer because I like to think -- a lot -- about a problem. Because I think, I sometimes dream about it too. But I have other interests that I try not to think of work after work hours. I have a creativity gene in me, so I enjoy designing ...

    Kristin Sweeney, US Aggregates
    Answered Monday, June 27, 2022 at 10:38 AM

    I enjoy the life my engineering career has given me, it’s opened the doors for lots of opportunities. I would say there have been times when my hours are more than others, but I’ve always been able to find balance. I’ve been working now for over 15 ...

    Deborah Villarroel-Lamb, The University of the West Indies
    Answered Monday, June 27, 2022 at 10:37 AM

    I think any profession, including engineering, will require long hours and deep commitment at points during your career. There will be times that you need to make sacrifices to achieve a project goal by a given deadline, but that is true for anything ...

  • Added Wednesday, April 26, 2023 at 9:26 AM

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    Engineering seems interesting but I love helping people so I don’t know if it’s right for me. Does engineering help people? If it does how can I do that?

    Answers 13
    Kay Hatlestad, Trane Technologies
    Answered Friday, April 28, 2023 at 9:08 AM

    Helping people is the reason I became an engineer! I’m an acoustical engineer. Some of the things I’ve worked on:

    • Microphones so people with hearing aids can hear a phone conversation even in a noisy room
    • Wall & ceiling design so you don’t hear your ...
    Kim Linder, Honeywell FM&T
    Answered Friday, April 28, 2023 at 9:03 AM

    There are so many ways to help people as an engineer. You can go into areas in which the end users is a person that may need assistance, think devices such as prosthetics or hearing aids or other medical devices, the list goes on. You can work in areas ...

    Lyn Kyle Manson, Verizon
    Answered Thursday, April 27, 2023 at 4:54 PM
    Engineering is a profession that will open doors to many opportunities to help people both directly and indirectly.  Like any degree program you learn three things:  1) background information specific to your major, but also 2) how to find and organize ...
  • Added Tuesday, March 28, 2023 at 10:21 AM

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    I'm 12 and really want to be an engineer but kids at school are saying that I will never make it as an engineer because I'm not smart enough so I would like to know how I could become an engineer. Where do I start? What can I do now?

    Answers 13
    Irene Rexwinkle, Blue Origin
    Answered Tuesday, March 28, 2023 at 10:52 AM

    There’s this misconception that engineers are naturally super smart people (the way we’re portrayed in movies as people who can build/fix/code anything definitely doesn’t help), but the truth is that just about anyone passionate about solving problems ...

    Danielle Cooper, The Chemours Company
    Answered Tuesday, March 28, 2023 at 10:49 AM

    To be successful as an engineer, you don’t have to be the smartest in your class, but you do have to be one of the most determined. Engineering takes a lot of tenacity to stick with a problem and work through it methodically, even after you deal with ...

    Kim Linder, Honeywell FM&T
    Answered Tuesday, March 28, 2023 at 10:46 AM

    Anyone who wants to be an engineer can be one. Do not let others determine your path.

    What you can do now is take as many math classes as you can. If you need a tutor, ask your school. Find math games to play, and problem solving type puzzles – even ...

  • Added Monday, February 27, 2023 at 12:28 PM

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    I’ve heard I can expect to run into challenges by being a girl in engineering. What’s that like? Are there other challenges you run into, in your job or outside of your job, being an engineer?

    Answers 4
    Kristin Sweeney, US Aggregates
    Answered Friday, March 3, 2023 at 7:45 AM

    Challenges are going to be part of all our lives, and while I can’t say what challenges you yourself may face, I will say that with every challenge comes an opportunity as long as we flip it on its head.

    When I was in middle school my guidance counselor ...

    Donna Hull, Verizon
    Answered Monday, February 27, 2023 at 2:59 PM

    CHALLENGE! That is a milestone or achievement for an engineer. Having a problem set in front of you and devising a solution. Many times there are several remedies to that challenge, some more effective than others.

    As a female engineer, whether working ...

    Nancy Post, Boston Consulting Group
    Answered Monday, February 27, 2023 at 2:56 PM

    Some of the key challenges include being one of few women and having very difficult technical challenges to work through. These same challenges can be considered opportunities!

    Being one of a few women automatically makes you more visible, so when you ...

  • Crystal Asiaw

    Added Monday, December 26, 2022 at 8:33 PM

    How do you get involved in stuff like that in engineering? Which discipline should you choose?
    Answers 1
    Yamini Grover, Fugro
    Answered Sunday, January 1, 2023 at 2:53 PM
    Hi Crystal, 
    
    Yes, you can very well work in the field of agriculture with a degree in Civil and Environmental degree. For example, soil chemistry is  major contributor towards the quality of crops which environmental engineering candidates study. If you ...
  • Added Tuesday, November 29, 2022 at 8:25 AM

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    I thought I wanted to be an engineer, but the other students in my math and science classes seem to know a lot more than I do and I don't really fit in with them. Has this happened to you? It's hard. How can I make it better? If I make it to engineering school, will it still be like this?

    Answers 9
    Karrin Felton, Naval Sea Systems Command
    Answered Tuesday, November 29, 2022 at 8:39 AM

    Everyone feels like they don’t belong at one point or another whether it be personal (with a circle of peers) or professionally (at work). In those moments, I remind myself that I am made to stand out. Focus on the strengths you have and use them to help ...

    Jamie Krakover, The Boeing Company
    Answered Tuesday, November 29, 2022 at 8:37 AM

    I think everyone feels like this at one time or another, and there's actually a name for it called imposter syndrome. I've felt this many times over the course of my career and schooling. But we have to remember everyone learns and grows at their own ...

    Delia Contreras, Honeywell
    Answered Tuesday, November 29, 2022 at 8:36 AM

    I totally understand the feeling. When I graduated from high school and went to the engineering school, I felt I didn’t belong because I was very behind. I came from a small town and the high school education wasn’t of great quality. I failed most of my ...

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