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Can I be an engineer and still dress conservatively?

I'm passionate about maths, physics, and problem-solving and want to be an engineer (I like mechanical and electrical right now), but I worry that the way I dress will limit my opportunities. I dress conservatively, remaining covered and not showing the form. I don’t want to work at a desk all the time, but is loose, flowing clothing permitted on jobsites or around moving machinery? Are there workarounds for someone like me?

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  • Added Tuesday, October 28, 2025 at 1:01 PM

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    Like who would you say helped make you the engineer you are today? I don’t really have anyone around, how do I find other role models besides the list of engineers on EngineerGirl?

    Answers 9
    Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting
    Answered Tuesday, October 28, 2025 at 1:46 PM

    By far, my largest influencers were my teachers which started with my 1st and 2nd grade teacher who taught me that just because I didn’t like doing something, I should still strive to do it the best I could. She knew I could have better penmanship, but ...

    Wendy Sahli, Regulatory Affairs Professionals Society
    Answered Tuesday, October 28, 2025 at 1:41 PM

    Unfortunately, I don’t have a female who helped me get into my engineering role. I had a great male mentor, though, who taught me things outside of my job to give me a wider picture of infrastructure along the way. He expanded my knowledge by doing so ...

    Nancy Post, Boston Consulting Group
    Answered Tuesday, October 28, 2025 at 1:36 PM

    My biggest female influence was definitely my mother. She helped me so much in my career. But it's not in the manner you would think. She only attended school until she was in 8th grade due to her mother dying when she was young. Her two older ...

  • Added Monday, September 29, 2025 at 2:26 PM

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    I'm passionate about maths, physics, and problem-solving and want to be an engineer (I like mechanical and electrical right now), but I worry that the way I dress will limit my opportunities. I dress conservatively, remaining covered and not showing the form. I don’t want to work at a desk all the time, but is loose, flowing clothing ...

    Answers 6
    Amy Devine, QuickFlex, Inc.
    Answered Monday, September 29, 2025 at 2:34 PM

    You will find a job in engineering. The restrictions that we have in jobs are there to keep us safe. You cannot have someone operating machinery while wearing clothing that could get caught. That being said, I am sure that there is an OSHA person who can ...

    Sarah Kurtz, University of California, Merced
    Answered Monday, September 29, 2025 at 2:33 PM

    Conservative dress is just fine for office work and presentations at conferences. However, loose clothing when working near machinery may cause a safety hazard. This should be reviewed in consultation with your Safety Officer and appropriate precautions ...

    Kim Linder, Honeywell FM&T
    Answered Monday, September 29, 2025 at 2:33 PM

    In general, yes! You can dress conservatively. The only exceptions I can think of when you may not have 100% say in the outer layer is when safety comes into play. In a machine shop, or place with moving machinery, you are often required to wear steel ...

  • Added Thursday, June 26, 2025 at 2:57 PM

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    I want to be an engineer but sometimes I feel like I want to give up. There are so many challenges and distractions these days. How do you keep going and persevering when school gets hard (or now your job I guess)? What are you persevering for? What inspires you to keep pushing? Looking for some encouragement and advice to keep at it.

    Answers 8
    Nancy Post, Boston Consulting Group
    Answered Thursday, June 26, 2025 at 3:29 PM

    I think it's very natural when undertaking a long and (sometimes) difficult task, to feel overwhelmed and want to give up. It is especially helpful to determine your purpose.

    Are you going into engineering to create innovation that will help the world ...

    Beth Crisco-Kestner, Civil & Environmental Consultants, Inc.
    Answered Thursday, June 26, 2025 at 3:27 PM

    Defining and refining your Purpose is crucial to continued focus and success.

    In business, a company must define their purpose, mission and vision for existing. These are the statements that can be used to reflect back on when the business hits a bump in ...

    Kim Linder, Honeywell FM&T
    Answered Thursday, June 26, 2025 at 3:26 PM

    Great question! There is A LOT to deal with these days.

    I think you first need to understand your personality and what gives you a sense of accomplishment – do you need short term goals, long term, other? Also, what are the things you like to do that ...

  • Added Thursday, March 27, 2025 at 12:16 PM

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    I’m starting to think about college and since it is expensive and a lot of work, I don’t want to regret my decision of what to study. I really like the engineering stuff I’ve done in school so far and think that it could be a good path for me. Are there parts of engineering that you don’t like or that make you regret going into it in the ...

    Answers 9
    Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting
    Answered Thursday, March 27, 2025 at 12:34 PM

    This is a tough question for those of us who have spent our entire career in engineering related fields. Naturally, there are some areas which I loved more than others. In school, I struggled with thermodynamics but excelled at heat transfer which ...

    Una Trivanovic, METAS (Swiss Federal Institute of Metrology)
    Answered Thursday, March 27, 2025 at 12:33 PM

    Engineering is a very broad field so if you study engineering you can choose from a huge variety of jobs which all have pros and cons. I have had some engineering jobs that I didn't enjoy so much and others that I have found very fulfilling! I will never ...

    Answered Thursday, March 27, 2025 at 12:32 PM

    Hello! What a great question. First and foremost, I applaud you for understanding your likes and contemplating career choices while in high school. It will be important in college and class selections.

    Secondly, I wanted to answer your question, “have ...

  • Added Friday, December 20, 2024 at 3:09 PM

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    If so, how did you handle it? I am currently thinking about women in STEM and the inequality/underrepresentation we may face. It would be nice to have an inside opinion on the challenges within STEM.

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    Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting
    Answered Friday, December 20, 2024 at 3:22 PM

    I began my engineering education and career in 1978, so the simple answer is yes. It began in college but only in 1 course which was a terrible experience for me and the subject was difficult on top of that. I was too young to realize that I should have ...

    Answered Friday, December 20, 2024 at 3:21 PM

    Yes, I've experienced inequality because of my gender several times, unfortunately. To manage through the inequality I joined a non-profit organization which focuses on the empowerment and advocacy of women and allies within my industry. Through this ...

    Answered Friday, December 20, 2024 at 3:20 PM

    Hi, to be honest early in my career I did face negative comments about my gender when working in a field-based position. Basically, that I didn't know anything and was "just a girl". I was fortunate to have a very supportive male supervisor who advocated ...

  • Added Wednesday, November 20, 2024 at 1:15 PM

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    Hi, I’m a freshman in high school and I’m interested in robotics. I’m struggling a bit in my engineering class and it feels like everyone else knows what they’re doing. I got extra help on a project with my robotics club but I can’t help but think it’s because I’m a girl who is behind. I feel like I’m walking a thin line and being watched, ...

    Answers 20
    Answered Wednesday, December 18, 2024 at 4:20 PM
    Recognize and acknowledge your feelings: Understand that imposter syndrome is a common experience and that many high-achieving individuals, including Maya Angelou and Einstein, have felt the same way. Gather accomplishment evidence: Collect tangible ...
    Adriana Beal, BealProjects.com
    Answered Wednesday, November 20, 2024 at 2:05 PM

    It may help to hear from people who had similar experiences, so here's mine:

    When I first started studying Electrical Engineering, I'd get anxious when I saw my male colleagues get their electronic circuits to work much faster than I did. On paper, I ...

    Patricia Mokhtarian, Georgia Institute of Technology
    Answered Wednesday, November 20, 2024 at 2:03 PM

    I wish I had a magic answer on how to deal with imposter syndrome. I believe it will diminish for you as you continue to work hard and gain more experience and more confidence. But that may not offer much comfort to you right now!

    What I can say is that ...

  • Kyra

    Added Wednesday, November 13, 2024 at 8:00 AM

    I am currently thinking about women in STEM and the inequality/underrepresentation we face. It would be nice to have an inside opinion on the challenges within STEM.
    Answers 1
    Answered Wednesday, November 13, 2024 at 4:25 PM
    Hi, to be honest early in my career I did face negative comments about my gender when working in a field-based position. Basically, that I didn't know anything and was "just a girl".  I was fortunate to have a very supportive male supervisor who ...
  • Added Monday, October 28, 2024 at 12:37 PM

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    How do you deal with the fact that engineering designs impact people directly and can change lives? Like what if you accidentally endanger human life or make lives worse? Isn’t that scary?

    Answers 6
    Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting
    Answered Monday, October 28, 2024 at 1:30 PM

    Actually, one of the best parts of an engineering career is the ability to fundamentally improve peoples' lives through innovations and sound design. In any engineering role, there are clearly defined standards that have been developed over time that ...

    Erin Gately, Iron Mountain
    Answered Monday, October 28, 2024 at 1:29 PM

    Very rarely do we design something by ourselves. When designing a product or a process, there will be an entire team involved. The team will look at the engineering design from different aspects such as ergonomics and safety. Marketing will do market ...

    Kate Fay, Verizon
    Answered Monday, October 28, 2024 at 1:28 PM

    One of the great things about engineering is you are never working alone. There are multiple people/ teams involved in a design or process. This provides multiple eyes on a project to ensure everything is going smoothly and will not cause any negative ...

  • Added Friday, July 26, 2024 at 3:28 PM

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    I’m a rising 8th grader and I love engineering, especially aerospace engineering, but I don't know if my family would accept me being one. They don’t really get it. How can I make them accept that I want to be an engineer? I know I can’t force them to be proud of me, but I want to try. Especially my younger brothers.

    Answers 13
    Answered Friday, August 9, 2024 at 2:28 PM
     Explain to your family the benefits of a STEM career and how engineering impacts society and everyday life. Share stories of women in engineering and their contributions. Demonstrate your seriousness about becoming an engineer through your actions and ...
    Natalie White, Amazon Web Services
    Answered Friday, July 26, 2024 at 3:57 PM

    You’re right, you can’t force your family to be proud of you. But your career choice is just that - your choice. The benefits of choosing a STEM career far outweigh the risks of your family’s lack of understanding. If you do want to try to convince them, ...

    Donna Hull, Verizon
    Answered Friday, July 26, 2024 at 3:56 PM

    This question really came at the right time and resonated with me. I am 59 years old, and I have been working in the field of computer science, networking, and now telecommunications engineering for 30+ years. I did an interview for the National Academy ...

  • Added Wednesday, June 26, 2024 at 1:26 PM

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    I am 12 years old and I’ve always wanted to be an engineer but in 4th grade I got bullied for wanting to be an engineer as a girl. Do you think I can still be an engineer even though they don’t think so? I don’t want to be bullied. What do I do if I get bullied again?

    Answers 12
    Answered Tuesday, July 16, 2024 at 10:55 AM
    If you have a passion for engineering, you should definitely pursue it. Engineering is a field that requires creativity, problem-solving, and resilience, all of which can be strengthened through overcoming challenges. Remember, many successful engineers ...
    Isabelle Cabana, Collins Aerospace
    Answered Wednesday, June 26, 2024 at 1:40 PM

    YES, you can still be an engineer even though you were bullied for wanting to be one. Bullying for having any sort of interest is bound to happen. It can be quite discouraging and I can’t guarantee it changes as you get older but what I can guarantee is ...

    Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting
    Answered Wednesday, June 26, 2024 at 1:39 PM

    This question resonated well with me as I experienced something similar in my path to being an engineer. You are breaking the "expectation" of what girls are supposed to do. You are also very bright and probably many others are envious of your capability.

  • Crystal Asiaw

    Added Monday, December 26, 2022 at 8:35 PM

    Answers 2
    Julia Lopez, Turner Construction
    Answered Tuesday, May 21, 2024 at 8:56 AM
    I am currently working in Contruction management with my civil engineering degree, and we frequently build LEED and Envision certified buildings. These buildings become certified by making sustainable choices. If you choose to go into construction, you ...
    Margaret Byron, Penn State University
    Answered Wednesday, November 8, 2023 at 11:49 AM
    Hi Crystal-- there are lots of ways!  Some civil engineers focus on infrastructure, like designing buildings, dams, roads, and bridges. They might focus on lowering energy requirements, increasing resilience to natural disasters, or improving integration ...
  • Added Tuesday, September 27, 2022 at 8:33 AM

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    What happens next? How do you handle it?

    Answers 19
    Tina Swangphol, Chevron
    Answered Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at 3:34 PM
    Think of "failing" as just an opportunity to learn.  But you must learn from the situation so that you will not repeat the same mistake.  Then, just brush it off, get up and try again.  Always think that you can do this, and try harder in another way.  ...
    Kristin Sweeney, US Aggregates
    Answered Tuesday, September 27, 2022 at 9:22 AM

    When you fail, which will happen at some point in your career, the most important thing to do is learn from it! Give yourself time to process what happened and what went wrong, then brainstorm ways to mitigate failure in the future. If we treat failure ...

    Linda Schadler, University of Vermont
    Answered Tuesday, September 27, 2022 at 9:20 AM

    I think failure depends on your definition. If you tried something new and it didn’t work – that is not failure. That is exploration or design iteration or learning. There are times that you fail an exam or a course or have a paper rejected. My approach ...

  • Added Thursday, April 28, 2022 at 2:02 PM

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    Looking back at your time in school or your early career in engineering, would you change anything? Would you do anything differently, like that would have better prepared you for where you are now or led you somewhere else?

    Answers 7
    Tina Swangphol, Chevron
    Answered Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at 3:25 PM
    I would polish up on my writing skills and communication skills early on during college or even in high school.  I would learn acting skills that would help me with presentation and dealing with difficult people.  Emotional Intelligence and how to win ...
    Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting
    Answered Thursday, April 28, 2022 at 2:30 PM

    My advice: don’t hesitate – speak up and share your ideas. Everyone has a voice, use yours when you know you have a valid point.

    Debra Slocum, Retired
    Answered Thursday, April 28, 2022 at 2:28 PM

    Until I was a junior in college I thought the people who volunteered to do things in class knew what they were doing, even if it was a new subject. I finally asked a young man how he was going to do the problem the professor had asked someone to do? He ...

  • Added Monday, January 29, 2024 at 2:53 PM

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    I've been interested in chemical engineering, particularly cosmetic chemical engineering, for some time now. I felt like this pathway would have been good for me as I enjoy science and math and like the lifestyle that it could provide (work, family/life balance, flexibility, hands-on, salary, etc). I'm a little conflicted because I often ...

    Answers 12
    Sandra Hernandez, Chevron
    Answered Monday, January 29, 2024 at 3:20 PM

    If you enjoy science and math, I don’t see why you should stress about taking chemical engineering as a major!

    Engineering, as many other majors, requires hard work, but this doesn’t mean you need to leave your social life behind. Engineering offers a ...

    Bianca Stamps, Chevron
    Answered Monday, January 29, 2024 at 3:19 PM

    While the curriculum involved in pursuing engineering is rather difficult, I have found that it did not make me any less social. In some cases, it made me more social! In my junior and senior years, I worked more in our engineering building with fellow ...

    Answered Monday, January 29, 2024 at 3:18 PM

    This is a fair question and I think a lot of people are scared off from majoring in engineering because of this and also fears of the difficulty of engineering classes. First, I would absolutely recommend you pick chemical engineering as a major, since ...

  • Vera

    Added Wednesday, October 25, 2023 at 8:59 AM

    I used to be one of the best in my math class but then I switched schools and my average grade the last two years before graduating was a C (in exams) & D (participating in class). Since the sudden drop in grades took away my passion for mathematics, I am not interested in the subject as much as I used to as a kid. Now, I'm mostly interested in chemical / mechanical engineering.
    Answers 1
    Answered Thursday, October 26, 2023 at 11:04 AM
    Let me start by acknowledging that changing schools is tough. It seems simple on the outside, but it takes time to resettle yourself and find your groove.
    Mathematics is an underlying component to nearly all of engineering. There are many types of math ...
  • Emma Wilson asked Irene Rexwinkle, Blue Origin

    Added Tuesday, September 12, 2023 at 3:31 AM

    Hi, I'm Emma, and I am interested in becoming an engineer and would like more information about them.
    Answers 1
    Irene Rexwinkle, Blue Origin
    Answered Friday, September 22, 2023 at 3:00 PM
    Hi Emma! The path to becoming an engineer typically includes obtaining a 4-year college degree from an accredited engineering program at a university. Some go on to obtain a 2 year master's degree (to get some more specialized education before starting a ...
  • Added Monday, August 28, 2023 at 4:33 PM

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    How do you deal with hate? Most kids at my school think that I am dumb because of my math grade. I can't do the formulas yet but I can do any other in my head. Please give me some advice. I want to be in IT when I grow up and I don't think I am good enough or smart enough.

    Answers 10
    Kasey Faust, University of Texas at Austin
    Answered Monday, August 28, 2023 at 4:46 PM

    Not every class has to be your best class. You will excel at some topics and not other for may reason such as how the material is taught, whether you have a natural inclination towards that topic, or whatever else you have going on in your life (e.g., if ...

    Kim Linder, Honeywell FM&T
    Answered Monday, August 28, 2023 at 4:44 PM

    Remember that no one is born knowing everything. In fact, we are born knowing nothing and have to learn. Even people who will say mean things to others, have had to learn things at some point. We all have different paths in our lives, learn at different ...

    Wendy Sahli, Regulatory Affairs Professionals Society
    Answered Monday, August 28, 2023 at 4:43 PM

    Great question! I had the same situation.

    I also didn’t do well in math in high school, and I was asked to drop a class because I was failing. After some tutoring, I learned my learning capability was different from others. I am an auditory learner. In ...

  • willow hoyt asked Neeti Sonth, University of Colorado Boulder

    Added Sunday, January 22, 2023 at 3:06 PM

    Answers 1
    Neeti Sonth, University of Colorado Boulder
    Answered Wednesday, August 9, 2023 at 6:58 PM
    I have always liked science and maths and I have always been awed by their immense applications. Engineering has made me confident that we can build anything we dream. Humans have always been curious and engineering has made it possible for us to satiate ...
  • Delani asked Tamara Floyd-Smith, West Virginia University Institute of Technology

    Added Sunday, March 12, 2023 at 7:14 PM

    Answers 1
    Tamara Floyd-Smith, West Virginia University Institute of Technology
    Answered Wednesday, June 28, 2023 at 2:53 PM
    In principle, the job is the same independent of gender.  However, as a female engineer, it is very important to identify mentors, role models, sponsors, and other key individuals to help overcome challenges associated with engineering as a historically ...
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