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Can I be an engineer and still dress conservatively?

I'm passionate about maths, physics, and problem-solving and want to be an engineer (I like mechanical and electrical right now), but I worry that the way I dress will limit my opportunities. I dress conservatively, remaining covered and not showing the form. I don’t want to work at a desk all the time, but is loose, flowing clothing permitted on jobsites or around moving machinery? Are there workarounds for someone like me?

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  • Added Monday, April 28, 2025 at 12:03 PM

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    I want to be an engineer and I’m good at math and science but I’m not good in reading and social studies. I don’t really like those other subjects. Do I need to be good at things other than math and science to be an engineer? I thought engineers just used STEM stuff but my sister says they use more things too.

    Answers 11
    Answered Monday, April 28, 2025 at 12:30 PM

    Hey! It's awesome that you're interested in engineering and that you're strong in math and science – that's a fantastic foundation! Seriously, those skills are super important for becoming an engineer, so you're already on a great track.

    Your sister does ...

    Patricia Mokhtarian, Georgia Institute of Technology
    Answered Monday, April 28, 2025 at 12:28 PM

    I won't lie to you: the better you are with words (reading and writing), the stronger your impact as an engineer will be! I cannot imagine an engineering job in which you won't need to communicate your ideas, plans, and accomplishments to other people. ...

    Wendy Sahli, Regulatory Affairs Professionals Society
    Answered Monday, April 28, 2025 at 12:23 PM

    You do not have to be good at every subject. I would encourage you to look for STEM in subjects that you aren’t great at. You’d be surprised how much STEM plays a role in history, and you can find books related to your interests or find STEM in the books ...

  • Added Tuesday, May 28, 2024 at 3:09 PM

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    How did you develop that skill? How can I work on it? Is there something that you would have done differently when you were young to start developing that skill early?

    Answers 16
    Answered Tuesday, July 16, 2024 at 10:52 AM
    One beneficial skill is the ability to collaborate effectively with various stakeholders. This includes clear communication, understanding different perspectives, and working together to achieve common goals. Additionally, being adaptable and ...
    Karen Panetta, Tufts University
    Answered Tuesday, May 28, 2024 at 3:33 PM

    My best and most beneficial skill is storytelling! If I can explain something technical to anyone and have them understand why it's important and how I approached solving it, then I can learn and teach just about anything!

    I start from being able to ...

    Danielle Cooper, The Chemours Company
    Answered Tuesday, May 28, 2024 at 3:32 PM

    One skill that I’ve found incredibly useful and have continued to develop throughout my career is public speaking.

    I was terrified of public speaking throughout high school and college. It was my mentor early in my career that told me to sign up for ...

  • Evan

    Added Monday, April 1, 2024 at 4:18 PM

    I love engineering but I'm a kid and I love computer stuff but just how hard is it.
    Answers 1
    Terita Norton, The Aerospace Corporation
    Answered Monday, April 8, 2024 at 11:58 AM
    Hi Evan,
    
    Engineering isn't as scary as some might think. It does require focus and dedication to your studies but it is also cool to solve problems and create new innovative solutions. If you love computer stuff and exploring how things work I would ...
  • Added Thursday, April 28, 2022 at 2:02 PM

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    Looking back at your time in school or your early career in engineering, would you change anything? Would you do anything differently, like that would have better prepared you for where you are now or led you somewhere else?

    Answers 7
    Tina Swangphol, Chevron
    Answered Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at 3:25 PM
    I would polish up on my writing skills and communication skills early on during college or even in high school.  I would learn acting skills that would help me with presentation and dealing with difficult people.  Emotional Intelligence and how to win ...
    Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting
    Answered Thursday, April 28, 2022 at 2:30 PM

    My advice: don’t hesitate – speak up and share your ideas. Everyone has a voice, use yours when you know you have a valid point.

    Debra Slocum, Retired
    Answered Thursday, April 28, 2022 at 2:28 PM

    Until I was a junior in college I thought the people who volunteered to do things in class knew what they were doing, even if it was a new subject. I finally asked a young man how he was going to do the problem the professor had asked someone to do? He ...

  • Vera

    Added Wednesday, October 25, 2023 at 8:59 AM

    I used to be one of the best in my math class but then I switched schools and my average grade the last two years before graduating was a C (in exams) & D (participating in class). Since the sudden drop in grades took away my passion for mathematics, I am not interested in the subject as much as I used to as a kid. Now, I'm mostly interested in chemical / mechanical engineering.
    Answers 1
    Answered Thursday, October 26, 2023 at 11:04 AM
    Let me start by acknowledging that changing schools is tough. It seems simple on the outside, but it takes time to resettle yourself and find your groove.
    Mathematics is an underlying component to nearly all of engineering. There are many types of math ...
  • willow hoyt asked Neeti Sonth, University of Colorado Boulder

    Added Sunday, January 22, 2023 at 3:06 PM

    Answers 1
    Neeti Sonth, University of Colorado Boulder
    Answered Wednesday, August 9, 2023 at 6:58 PM
    I have always liked science and maths and I have always been awed by their immense applications. Engineering has made me confident that we can build anything we dream. Humans have always been curious and engineering has made it possible for us to satiate ...
  • Added Friday, May 26, 2023 at 10:44 AM

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    I am a student in a small town and I am a member of an engineering club in my school. I am the only girl there and I kind of feel left out. I have tried to communicate with them to make our work more productive, but it seems they are not willing to do so. What should I do? How can I overcome the feeling of not belonging? Is it always going ...

    Answers 11
    Michaela Mueller, Ryan Biggs Clark Davis
    Answered Friday, May 26, 2023 at 11:24 AM

    I also attended a small high school, and I felt excluded by the boys in my engineering classes and clubs. But I was ECSTATIC when I went to college and found other female students who were just as excited about engineering as I was. We stuck together ...

    Delia Contreras, Honeywell
    Answered Friday, May 26, 2023 at 11:23 AM

    Learn to connect with individuals of the team at a personal level. Establish first relationship/friendships based on common likes, it is so much easier to have ‘friends’ or supporters in a team. That has always worked for me.

    Depending on the industry ...

    Donna Hull, Verizon
    Answered Friday, May 26, 2023 at 11:21 AM

    Inclusion is a big hurdle in society in any realm of your life. The good news is that dealing with personalities, bias, and general stereotypes is more openly talked about and recognized in today's society.

    A school club should have a teacher or other ...

  • Mia Peterson

    Added Tuesday, June 28, 2022 at 2:26 PM

    How does one branch into different industries with little to no experience in them? I am recent graduate with a Mechanical Engineering Degree and I am a bit lost. As a College student during Covid I didn't have a internship, while in school, so I am doing one currently. How to branch out? How do you make connections?
    Answers 1
    Mercy Asin, MGV
    Answered Tuesday, January 24, 2023 at 4:45 AM
    The steps I would advise you take would be
    
    1) Register and join an Engineering society in your city, attend their meetings and keep up to date with their posts on social media as some of them usually post graduate trainee programmes organized by some ...
  • Added Tuesday, May 31, 2022 at 2:48 PM

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    What should I learn that would help me be successful in college or as an engineer?

    Answers 8
    Haley Maas, Halff Associates, Inc
    Answered Tuesday, May 31, 2022 at 3:24 PM

    First and foremost, not all engineering majors lean heavily into a coding environment. However, it will benefit you greatly to take the time to pick up these skills on your own. As the world continues to move towards more automation, the more you know ...

    Nancy Post, Boston Consulting Group
    Answered Tuesday, May 31, 2022 at 3:22 PM

    There are some basics that will help you in almost any endeavor you take on:

    • Create a community for support and networking: this helps socially, but also when you need to brainstorm on a special project or a tough problem or decision.
    • Have an empowered ...
    Answered Tuesday, May 31, 2022 at 3:20 PM

    There are some soft skills that will help you not only throughout an engineering career, but also through just about anything else you tackle in life going forward. There are traits/skills I look for when hiring: integrity, honesty and reliability are ...

  • Added Wednesday, May 26, 2021 at 1:15 PM

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    I am more of an extroverted person, but I feel like I've always heard that engineering is a great career for people who don't want to be around others. However, I don't want to be isolated and alone during my job, and I would like to be able to interact with people. Which jobs in engineering would be best for that? Any types of engineering ...

    Answers 12
    Kim Linder, Honeywell FM&T
    Answered Wednesday, May 26, 2021 at 2:13 PM

    I have found engineering to be a combination of introverts and extroverts. Remember an introvert is just more comfortable in certain settings, but don't assume a shy person does not like to be around people. In engineering, like any other profession, ...

    Lauren Olsen, Collins Aerospace
    Answered Wednesday, May 26, 2021 at 2:12 PM

    It’s important to acknowledge that it’s a stereotype that engineers are all nerdy introverts who prefer to be anti-social hermits. I have known so many extroverted engineers and in fact, sometimes they can make some of the best ones because they aren’t ...

    Bri O'Neill, Wisk
    Answered Wednesday, May 26, 2021 at 2:09 PM

    As an extrovert and someone who enjoys helping people work together, I have found great job satisfaction in leading an engineering team as a Scrum Master, Project Engineer, or Technical Program Manager. In these roles I am tasked with coming up with ways ...

  • Jennifer Gregory asked Sara Damas, Collins Aerospace

    Added Wednesday, January 6, 2021 at 10:22 PM

    I'm hoping to become a mechanical engineer in the future, but the thing that scares me the most is the math and physics. I can't really do the math in my head that well. Do you use calculators for math problems? and how much math do you have to do in one day? Is it it hard? I'm a high school senior, and going to be going to engineering classes hopefully in the next two years or so, and want to know what to expect when I go to classes and when I'm an engineer.

    Also, would I not be ...

    Answers 1
    Sara Damas, Collins Aerospace
    Answered Sunday, May 23, 2021 at 7:08 PM
    Hello Jennifer! Thank you for your question. 
    
    We do use math everyday but the intensity and detail of the math we use to solve our problems varies day by day. Sometimes we might use known functions, often solved by programing or machines and other times ...
  • Added Wednesday, January 27, 2021 at 1:35 PM

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    How has networking helped you get to where you are now? Do you have any networking tips for upcoming engineers?

    Answers 19
    Khadijah Latiff, Amazon
    Answered Tuesday, April 20, 2021 at 5:09 PM
    Networking is essential in career development, not only for yourself, but also to lift up other new engineers who come after you. I don't know anyone who is truly successful on their own without the help of others. As an upcoming engineer, start joining ...
    April Yalenezian, Verizon
    Answered Tuesday, April 20, 2021 at 5:08 PM
    Networking in any profession is very important!  
    
    Get to know anyone and everyone!  Introduce yourself, ask for their elevator pitch, ask questions, be kind and curious to everybody, 
    Cheryl Lanzer, Verizon
    Answered Tuesday, April 20, 2021 at 5:06 PM
    Networking in Engineering has two distinct meanings.  The physical description of the word network can refer to the physically connection of devices being connected thru a type of cable/fiber/technology.  The descriptive for networking = meaning to meet ...
  • Added Friday, February 28, 2020 at 2:44 PM

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    Like a lot of people who want to be engineers, I enjoy math and science and am doing really well in those classes. My English and writing classes are another story. I’ve never been a strong writer and I don’t enjoy it. Is that okay for an engineer? How much writing is done as an engineer? What types of communication skills should I focus on ...

    Answers 19
    Kristen Sanderson, GE Digital
    Answered Friday, February 28, 2020 at 3:17 PM

    Any professional career path you take will require good communication skills. You will be communicating technical details and status to your team, your manager, and your customers. This is as much verbal as written communication, so I recommend getting ...

    Answered Friday, February 28, 2020 at 3:15 PM

    Writing is important…as in, let’s get you into some courses to strengthen that skillset early on! :-)

    That’s great that you enjoy Math and Science, however, if you are not able to relay what you have created, discovered, engineered, resolved (in a ...

    Kate Fay, Verizon
    Answered Friday, February 28, 2020 at 3:13 PM

    This is a great question! A lot of engineers joke about not being great at English or spelling. However, writing and communication skills are still required in engineering. Different types of jobs require different types of writing and communication ...

  • Jeni

    Added Saturday, January 19, 2019 at 4:45 PM

    I have a little bit of a hard time talking and people either cut me off, or don't always listen to me. I have a very small stammer, so it's hard for me sometimes to say the right thing. I sometimes get mixed up and say things differently then what I meant to say. Could that affect me with someday working as a Mechanical Engineer?

    Answers 1
    Diana Manning, Retired
    Answered Tuesday, February 26, 2019 at 10:42 AM
    I don't think that should stop you.  A couple of things, begin to work on your communication skills now, to build your confidence.  There are organizations out there that can help.  I am assuming you are sill in school, so your school counselor may be ...
  • Added Monday, February 4, 2019 at 7:16 AM

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    I’ve heard some engineers say they were the only woman in a class or club in college, or after college on a project or team at work. Has this happened to you? How did you deal with standing out like that and not having any other women around?

    Answers 27
    Kristin Sweeney, US Aggregates
    Answered Monday, February 25, 2019 at 8:33 AM

    For me, starting in High school taking Engineering classes, I was one of 3 girls in the room. However for me this was never a deterrent, I saw it as a challenge. I wanted to prove myself that I can do anything and just as well if not better than the guys.

    Answered Friday, February 8, 2019 at 4:23 AM

    Not only in college classes, but also the work environment did I find myself as the only female working/teamed up with only male counterparts. When we learn to view others for the person, the talents, the traits, the contributions they bring to a ...

    Jamie Krakover, The Boeing Company
    Answered Tuesday, February 5, 2019 at 4:15 AM

    I have been the only woman in the room before, but luckily it is become more rare as more women pursue STEM. It can alienating when this happens, but it's less about standing out (because you already do if you're the only woman) and more about making ...

  • Added Friday, December 21, 2018 at 2:25 AM

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    I like being with people, but I don't like to be the center of attention or push for my own way. I like to think about things and work out details before I jump in with an answer. But I often hear that women need to speak up and be more aggressive to be successful in their careers. Is that true for women in engineering? I’ve also heard that ...

    Answers 29
    Maria Marenco, Robert Bosch
    Answered Tuesday, January 22, 2019 at 12:10 PM

    You don’t have to change the way you are, no matter what you decide to study or where you work. What I think happens in these work areas where there are fewer men than women, is that you feel constantly insecure. Especially is you enter a new subject, ...

    Eva Hayward, Self Employed
    Answered Thursday, January 10, 2019 at 12:44 PM

    No, you do not have to be really outgoing. It takes all personality types to make a really great team and teamwork is an absolute necessity to accomplish great things. Most of the engineers that I have worked with during my 20+ year career have been ...

    Nicolette Yovanof Little, The Boeing Company
    Answered Thursday, January 10, 2019 at 11:47 AM

    In my experience, the best engineers and leaders know their strengths and use them to their advantage in how they interact at work. You can still be an introvert and be a successful engineer, but you will need to find a balance of speaking up and ...

  • Added Tuesday, November 20, 2018 at 9:47 AM

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    I do really well in school, but people get mad at me if I say anything about it. I don’t want to make people feel bad, but I’m also proud of my work. Have you ever faced this? If so, what did you do about it?

    Answers 10
    Margaret Byron, Penn State University
    Answered Wednesday, December 19, 2018 at 8:06 AM

    I was lucky in that I never felt much pressure to pretend that I didn’t like science or math, or pretend that I wasn’t good at it. There was a year or two where I was pretty lonely, at the beginning of middle school, because other kids made fun of me for ...

    Jodie Lutkenhaus, Texas A&M University
    Answered Monday, November 26, 2018 at 3:20 PM
    I sure have, especially when I was in high school. However, I was reminded that high school was only temporary. I tried to keep my head down, do my work, and get through it. Once at college, I was able to specialize in chemical engineering, where ...
    Mekka Williams, NetApp
    Answered Monday, November 26, 2018 at 3:17 PM

    Unfortunately yes. This problem never goes away and can happen right in your own family. Here is my advice:

    • Stop hiding your intelligence immediately. You don’t have to play dumb. Sometimes you can just refrain from engaging directly in those ...
  • Stephanie Valenzeula asked Amy Betz, Kansas State University

    Added Friday, November 10, 2017 at 9:43 AM

    Answers 1
    Amy Betz, Kansas State University
    Answered Saturday, December 1, 2018 at 12:20 PM
    I did not know I wanted to be a Mechanical Engineering right away. In high school I thought I wanted to study science and arts. When I had my first college interview, I learned that engineering would be a great way to combine my creative and scientific ...
  • Frint tropy

    Added Tuesday, April 3, 2018 at 7:52 AM

    I am still in high school but I want to develop these skills early on. (Also would be great if you can tell any other skill that is rare and valuable to potential employee.)
    Answers 1
    Katelyn Lichte, Corteva Agriscience
    Answered Monday, April 9, 2018 at 9:08 AM
    Hello Frint,
    
    This is a great question to be thinking about.  Soft skills are extremely valuable, and are often overlooked.  
    
    My top soft skills that I use are below:
    
    Public Speaking - you might give a lot of presentations as an engineer ...
  • NORA

    Added Friday, February 9, 2018 at 1:53 PM

    Answers 1
    Kristin Malosh, North Star BlueScope Steel
    Answered Sunday, March 4, 2018 at 9:50 PM
    Hi Nora,
    That's a lofty goal- to become a CEO! That isn't the job title that one gets fresh out of college. It takes hard work and time to develop the skillset and business knowledge required to be a Chief Executive Officer. Certainly a faster path is ...
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