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Can I be an engineer and still dress conservatively?

I'm passionate about maths, physics, and problem-solving and want to be an engineer (I like mechanical and electrical right now), but I worry that the way I dress will limit my opportunities. I dress conservatively, remaining covered and not showing the form. I don’t want to work at a desk all the time, but is loose, flowing clothing permitted on jobsites or around moving machinery? Are there workarounds for someone like me?

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  • arlyn

    Added Sunday, October 26, 2025 at 11:26 AM

    This is my first time using this forum sorry if I did anything wrong!!  I've been taking engineering in school for the past 3 years. I've been at the top of my classes for all 3 years. I'm in a new school now, and naturally I chose to be in engineering again. My teacher says I'm not good enough to be in his class. He told me it would be better if I rethink my future and quit engineering as a whole. I don't really know why he would say this, because I have a pretty high grade in his class, ...
    Answers 1
    Nance Dicciani, RTM Vital Signs, LLC
    Answered Tuesday, November 4, 2025 at 10:23 AM
     Hi Arlyn,
    I experienced the same type of negative comments not once, but several times during my career. There will always be others who tell you that you can't do something.
    When I was in high school some of my teachers told me that engineering was not ...
  • Grace

    Added Thursday, February 27, 2025 at 2:51 PM

    I graduated 2 years ago with a degree in biomedical engineering. I recently completed a diploma in women's soccer performance, but I don't know where or how to take the next step. I love the sports world, I especially like the idea of ??????being able to be part of improving players performance and helping prevent injuries, as well as better understanding women in sports, but I don't know how to get involved. I have no idea about specific jobs that might fit what I want, and I also don't know ...
    Answers 1
    Answered Tuesday, April 8, 2025 at 12:51 PM
    Speaking only of my own experience where I work -- there are people in my materials and mechanical test lab  with biomedical degrees and backgrounds, and similarly there are people with those types of backgrounds who work as wear test analysts or ...
  • Kyra

    Added Wednesday, November 13, 2024 at 8:00 AM

    I am currently thinking about women in STEM and the inequality/underrepresentation we face. It would be nice to have an inside opinion on the challenges within STEM.
    Answers 1
    Answered Wednesday, November 13, 2024 at 4:25 PM
    Hi, to be honest early in my career I did face negative comments about my gender when working in a field-based position. Basically, that I didn't know anything and was "just a girl".  I was fortunate to have a very supportive male supervisor who ...
  • Added Friday, July 26, 2024 at 3:28 PM

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    I’m a rising 8th grader and I love engineering, especially aerospace engineering, but I don't know if my family would accept me being one. They don’t really get it. How can I make them accept that I want to be an engineer? I know I can’t force them to be proud of me, but I want to try. Especially my younger brothers.

    Answers 13
    Answered Friday, August 9, 2024 at 2:28 PM
     Explain to your family the benefits of a STEM career and how engineering impacts society and everyday life. Share stories of women in engineering and their contributions. Demonstrate your seriousness about becoming an engineer through your actions and ...
    Natalie White, Amazon Web Services
    Answered Friday, July 26, 2024 at 3:57 PM

    You’re right, you can’t force your family to be proud of you. But your career choice is just that - your choice. The benefits of choosing a STEM career far outweigh the risks of your family’s lack of understanding. If you do want to try to convince them, ...

    Donna Hull, Verizon
    Answered Friday, July 26, 2024 at 3:56 PM

    This question really came at the right time and resonated with me. I am 59 years old, and I have been working in the field of computer science, networking, and now telecommunications engineering for 30+ years. I did an interview for the National Academy ...

  • Aria

    Added Wednesday, February 14, 2024 at 4:03 PM

    I'm starting to take engineering classes in college (one is specifically hands on building) and while others around me seem to understand exactly how components go together, how electrical systems work, and envision things perfectly from a basic description, I struggle to see and understand. I know engineering takes time and practice, but I'm also worried that because my mind doesn't work like others' maybe I'm not cut out to be an engineer and I'm just deluding myself into the profession ...
    Answers 2
    Julia Lopez, Turner Construction
    Answered Tuesday, May 21, 2024 at 9:19 AM
    Don't give up! I personally struggled a lot through my degree because my brain doesn't work like others. I have ADHD and dyscalculia and it was hard watching my peers naturally "get" things that I wasn't. With that said the fact that your brain works ...
    Roberta Cortez, Collins Aerospace
    Answered Saturday, February 17, 2024 at 4:29 PM
    Aria - During my freshman year at college I was also exposed for the first time to hands-on engineering courses.  These were new experiences to me, and I too felt like others were understanding things faster and were able to comprehend the topic much ...
  • Trenedy Brown-Player

    Added Friday, June 9, 2023 at 8:44 AM

    I'm 21 years old and currently working as a part-time cashier. I have struggled to get back into school due to financial issues and owning tuition for college. I have tried everything and nothing has worked out and I really want to pursue this career.

    Answers 2
    Julia Lopez, Turner Construction
    Answered Tuesday, May 21, 2024 at 9:12 AM
    What aspect of civil engineering interests you? I went the typical route of getting a civil engineering degree and now work in construction management. However, I know quite a few people in the industry that had very different routes. If you like the ...
    Alicia Bailey, Sain Associates
    Answered Tuesday, July 18, 2023 at 11:03 AM

    A couple of thoughts on this. In the public sector (state agencies, utility companies, municipalities), there would be plenty of options for non-civil engineering related jobs. Anything you could learn about how public agencies work and function will ...

  • Evan

    Added Monday, April 1, 2024 at 4:18 PM

    I love engineering but I'm a kid and I love computer stuff but just how hard is it.
    Answers 1
    Terita Norton, The Aerospace Corporation
    Answered Monday, April 8, 2024 at 11:58 AM
    Hi Evan,
    
    Engineering isn't as scary as some might think. It does require focus and dedication to your studies but it is also cool to solve problems and create new innovative solutions. If you love computer stuff and exploring how things work I would ...
  • willow hoyt asked Neeti Sonth, University of Colorado Boulder

    Added Sunday, January 22, 2023 at 3:06 PM

    Answers 1
    Neeti Sonth, University of Colorado Boulder
    Answered Wednesday, August 9, 2023 at 6:58 PM
    I have always liked science and maths and I have always been awed by their immense applications. Engineering has made me confident that we can build anything we dream. Humans have always been curious and engineering has made it possible for us to satiate ...
  • Linda Karas

    Added Sunday, January 29, 2023 at 7:20 PM

    Hello, I'm 48, I've been a SAHM mom for 16 years, and I never completed college. I am currently enrolled in community college for an associates in mechanical engineering with plans to earn my BS at the university level. I will be in my mid 50s (my brain withstanding), and I am wondering if doing all of this will, given my age, keep me in the running for employment (space industry is my goal)? I haven't been able to find the support for my unique non-traditional student status, so I'm hoping ...

    Answers 1
    Jamie Krakover, The Boeing Company
    Answered Tuesday, January 31, 2023 at 3:28 PM
    I think you can absolutely find career opportunities after you graduate. STEM fields in general have an incredible need for talent and companies hire thousands upon millions of new grad each year. I know it's hard when you don't fit the typical vision of ...
  • Mia Peterson

    Added Tuesday, June 28, 2022 at 2:26 PM

    How does one branch into different industries with little to no experience in them? I am recent graduate with a Mechanical Engineering Degree and I am a bit lost. As a College student during Covid I didn't have a internship, while in school, so I am doing one currently. How to branch out? How do you make connections?
    Answers 1
    Mercy Asin, MGV
    Answered Tuesday, January 24, 2023 at 4:45 AM
    The steps I would advise you take would be
    
    1) Register and join an Engineering society in your city, attend their meetings and keep up to date with their posts on social media as some of them usually post graduate trainee programmes organized by some ...
  • Hugo Cisneros

    Added Tuesday, August 30, 2022 at 11:13 AM

    Answers 1
    Laura Helbling, Aster Brands
    Answered Tuesday, January 3, 2023 at 1:45 PM
    I am a civil engineer, specifically a geotechnical engineer which focuses on the properties of subsurface materials. Within geotechnical engineering, I focus on the design of modular block retaining walls which create necessary elevation change for site ...
  • Bryan asked Danielle Cooper, The Chemours Company

    Added Wednesday, August 31, 2022 at 3:25 PM

    Answers 1
    Danielle Cooper, The Chemours Company
    Answered Monday, January 2, 2023 at 11:19 AM
    I love that an engineer can be all kinds of different roles and have multiple kinds of careers! Engineers can, of course, stay technical, but can also go into sales, marketing, human resources, finance, logistics, or a variety of other options! Once ...
  • Added Monday, December 27, 2021 at 11:05 AM

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    Like about going to school or engineering or your job as an engineer or similar? Is there any common advice you’re glad you didn’t take?

    Answers 9
    Rozetta Elder, Collins Aerospace
    Answered Friday, January 21, 2022 at 3:57 PM
    The best piece of advice I've been given is to take things one step at a time. I like the quote by Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr which says, "You don't have to see the whole staircase to take the first step." There will be obstacles and tacks on some ...
    Danielle Schroeder, STEM Changemaker
    Answered Monday, December 27, 2021 at 11:19 AM

    The best advice I have ever been given is the following: finding out what you don't like is equally as important as finding out what you DO like for your future career!

    During college, I implemented this advice through the three co-ops I completed. Each ...

    Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting
    Answered Monday, December 27, 2021 at 11:18 AM

    The best piece of advice I was given was about my career and career planning. I was upset that I didn’t receive a promotion that I truly believe I deserved. My boss’s boss told me “I didn’t know that you expected to be promoted this year.” Then, another ...

  • Elliot asked Isabelle Cabana, Collins Aerospace

    Added Saturday, March 13, 2021 at 4:57 PM

    I mean obviously probably not an electrical engineer but like the sounds of electric shocks and stuff give me a panic attack and I don???t know will that be too much of a problem in all areas of engineering.

    Answers 1
    Isabelle Cabana, Collins Aerospace
    Answered Tuesday, August 10, 2021 at 5:13 PM
    Yes you can become an engineer if electricity and electrical stuff stresses you out. However, it depends on what type of engineering job you want to do in the future. 
    
    Do you like working in a lab and performing tests or figuring out how something ...
  • Added Wednesday, April 28, 2021 at 11:09 AM

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    Because of COVID a lot of ways to gain experience in engineering were canceled or changed and some may never come back. Do you think that will affect students’ chances of succeeding in college and in engineering down the road? How can I still get real engineering experience if programs don’t return? Also, has your job as an engineer changed ...

    Answers 8
    Answered Wednesday, April 28, 2021 at 11:52 AM

    I’m hopeful that COVID will and has taught us all to think outside of the box. I’m hopeful that colleges and companies will find more innovative ways to allow and encourage students to obtain opportunities for experience in engineering. The one thing ...

    Donna Hull, Verizon
    Answered Wednesday, April 28, 2021 at 11:50 AM

    Experience can come in many forms and engineers are great innovators. With the evolution that COVID has spurred, I would advise students to search the internet often for experience opportunities. Businesses with engineering related opportunities are ...

    Alyson Seigal, Verizon Communications
    Answered Wednesday, April 28, 2021 at 11:48 AM

    Some engineering-related classes and/or programs may have been cancelled, and even discontinued, due to the COVID-19 pandemic. However, I believe the overall focus remains the same, going into the future. Companies have realized that they can drive ...

  • Jessica Stephens asked Kim de Groh, NASA Glenn Research Center

    Added Friday, April 26, 2019 at 6:42 PM

    I'm 39 and pursing my dream since I was a little girl of becoming an AE. I'll finish the program in 2 yrs (i have previous BSN), and worried about getting hired as an older applicant out of school.

    Answers 1
    Kim de Groh, NASA Glenn Research Center
    Answered Friday, May 31, 2019 at 3:24 PM

    Hi, first congratulations on pursing your dream of becoming an engineer at this point in your life! As a NASA materials researcher, I am not knowledgeable about hiring. And, I assume the answer would vary depending on the organization (NASA vs. ...

  • Added Saturday, March 2, 2019 at 6:27 PM

    Hello! I am currently a Junior in high school. I'm about to move onto my senior year and I'm concerned about what kind of math and science I need that would help be fulfill being an Aerospace Engineer. I'm also planning on pursuing a career in nursing. So far I've only had classes that will fulfill nursing. I'm also kind of concerned how I can balance both careers in the future. I am passionate about both of them.

    So far the only science + math classes I've taken ...

    Answers 1
    Answered Monday, April 15, 2019 at 6:35 AM

    You have interest in two very different fields, both of which have careers in high demand. I recommend taking as many of the subsequent math levels as possible before you graduate. Additionally, I’d recommend taking physics or other general or mechanical ...

  • Jeni

    Added Saturday, January 19, 2019 at 4:45 PM

    I have a little bit of a hard time talking and people either cut me off, or don't always listen to me. I have a very small stammer, so it's hard for me sometimes to say the right thing. I sometimes get mixed up and say things differently then what I meant to say. Could that affect me with someday working as a Mechanical Engineer?

    Answers 1
    Diana Manning, Retired
    Answered Tuesday, February 26, 2019 at 10:42 AM
    I don't think that should stop you.  A couple of things, begin to work on your communication skills now, to build your confidence.  There are organizations out there that can help.  I am assuming you are sill in school, so your school counselor may be ...
  • Qwynci Bowman

    Added Saturday, January 12, 2019 at 11:12 PM

    Is it possible at all the be an engineer when you don't fit the mold of one on paper? I believe I will excel in it but it's extremely hard to transfer to the engineering school at this point. Is it still possible for me to work in this field?
    Answers 1
    Lauren Gordon, State of California
    Answered Wednesday, February 6, 2019 at 8:45 AM
    Hi Qwynci!
    
    Absolutely. In high school, I was told by two teachers and a guidance counselor that I did not have the grades or qualifications to become an engineer. And that I should consider another field. I broadened my search and found an out-of-state ...
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