EngineerGirl Team Added Monday, April 8, 2019 at 9:17 AM I'm having trouble in math – what can I do? I have a math teacher that I really don’t understand and I’m not doing as well in his class. I’ve always been pretty good at math, and I was thinking about majoring in engineering when I get to college. He said maybe engineering isn’t for me because I’m having trouble with the class. I never thought I was a bad student before. Is my teacher ... Answers 23 Wendy Sahli, Regulatory Affairs Professionals Society Answered Monday, March 23, 2020 at 3:19 PM I had this exact thing happen to me in high school. I tried taking calc and my teacher asked me to drop the class because I was so terrible at it and he couldn't help me. I thought I was horrible at math! However, when I got to college, I took the ... Urbashi Mitra, USC Viterbi School of Engineering Answered Monday, April 8, 2019 at 10:45 AM Dear You-Can-Do-Math-too, Mathematics, like many acquired skills, requires practice. This is true of mastering cartwheels, baking, woodworking, painting – I could go on. This is also true for reading and for language in general, the more exposure we ... Priscilla Bennett, Spire Answered Monday, April 8, 2019 at 10:25 AM The opinion of one person does not/should not define us. Please do not take this person’s teaching style or opinion as a reflection of what you are capable of accomplishing. Study groups, online learning, a tutor, library resources, a classmate, someone ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Wednesday, November 20, 2024 at 1:15 PM How do I deal with Impostor Syndrome? Hi, I’m a freshman in high school and I’m interested in robotics. I’m struggling a bit in my engineering class and it feels like everyone else knows what they’re doing. I got extra help on a project with my robotics club but I can’t help but think it’s because I’m a girl who is behind. I feel like I’m walking a thin line and being watched, ... Answers 20 Crystal Ramon-Miranda, Chevron Answered Wednesday, December 18, 2024 at 4:20 PM Recognize and acknowledge your feelings: Understand that imposter syndrome is a common experience and that many high-achieving individuals, including Maya Angelou and Einstein, have felt the same way. Gather accomplishment evidence: Collect tangible ... Adriana Beal, BealProjects.com Answered Wednesday, November 20, 2024 at 2:05 PM It may help to hear from people who had similar experiences, so here's mine: When I first started studying Electrical Engineering, I'd get anxious when I saw my male colleagues get their electronic circuits to work much faster than I did. On paper, I ... Patricia Mokhtarian, Georgia Institute of Technology Answered Wednesday, November 20, 2024 at 2:03 PM I wish I had a magic answer on how to deal with imposter syndrome. I believe it will diminish for you as you continue to work hard and gain more experience and more confidence. But that may not offer much comfort to you right now! What I can say is that ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Tuesday, September 27, 2022 at 8:33 AM What do you do when you fail? What happens next? How do you handle it? Answers 19 Tina Swangphol, Chevron Answered Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at 3:34 PM Think of "failing" as just an opportunity to learn. But you must learn from the situation so that you will not repeat the same mistake. Then, just brush it off, get up and try again. Always think that you can do this, and try harder in another way. ... Kristin Sweeney, US Aggregates Answered Tuesday, September 27, 2022 at 9:22 AM When you fail, which will happen at some point in your career, the most important thing to do is learn from it! Give yourself time to process what happened and what went wrong, then brainstorm ways to mitigate failure in the future. If we treat failure ... Linda Schadler, University of Vermont Answered Tuesday, September 27, 2022 at 9:20 AM I think failure depends on your definition. If you tried something new and it didn’t work – that is not failure. That is exploration or design iteration or learning. There are times that you fail an exam or a course or have a paper rejected. My approach ...
EngineerGirl Team asked Amber Hall, City of Somersworth Added Friday, August 27, 2021 at 4:57 PM What studying hacks have you used to thrive in difficult subjects while studying engineering? I’m guessing college is a bit different than middle and high school so I’m wondering if I need to update my study habits to something more suitable for college courses? Answers 18 Ammara Essa, Verizon Answered Friday, January 21, 2022 at 3:18 PM Hi! Personally, there are few things that helped me get through some difficult courses: - Set aside time to study everyday. Don't wait to cram on the weekends or before the test. Set a schedule for yourself at whatever time works best for you [mine was ... Rozetta Elder, Collins Aerospace Answered Monday, September 20, 2021 at 12:45 PM 1. Start immediately. As soon as your schedule allows, after a lesson is taught, go and review/study it as soon as possible for 2 reasons. 1 - You get a chance to review it yourself while the lesson is fresh and 2 - if you have questions, you have time ... Tehya Stockman, University of Colorado Boulder Answered Friday, August 27, 2021 at 5:33 PM I have a few different tips for studying hard subjects that I’ve used in both undergrad and grad school: 1. Start your assignments early, way before they are due. Compared to high school, it can be much easier to procrastinate in college. And some ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Friday, January 28, 2022 at 2:15 PM How can I overcome self-doubt during school? I’m sometimes not sure if I can do well in things like math even though I do ok, or I question whether or not I can make it in something like engineering later. Did this happen to you in school? How can I stop doubting myself, or turn it around when I do doubt myself? Answers 16 Karina M., VIRGIN GALACTIC Answered Friday, January 28, 2022 at 3:27 PM Yes, I have experienced a level of doubting my abilities while I was in college and even beginning my first engineering job. I even had a sense of this while I was excelling in my career when I would question whether the promotions and opportunities were ... Elaine Weyuker, University of Central Florida Answered Friday, January 28, 2022 at 3:25 PM This is an issue many people face, and it seems to be particularly prevalent among girls and women, even the most accomplished among us. It even has a name - it is sometimes called the "Imposter Syndrome" in which even though we may be at the top of our ... Kate Fay, Verizon Answered Friday, January 28, 2022 at 3:24 PM When I was in studying mechanical engineering in college, I remember doubting if I could make it through the class every time they went over the syllabus at the start of a semester. Honestly, I still have that voice in the back of my head every time I ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Tuesday, July 28, 2020 at 3:50 PM Is it normal to feel lost studying engineering in college? A family friend is at a top engineering school and she’s struggling. She heard things can get better in the 3rd year when you’re more into your specialty, but it hasn’t for her and she said she feels lost. I want to go into engineering, too, but is this what I should expect? If I’m lost all through college, how will I be okay in an ... Answers 15 Alyse Falconer, Point Energy Innovations Answered Tuesday, July 28, 2020 at 5:39 PM Yes, it’s completely normal to feel lost. A lot of engineering curriculums are very rigorous, tough, and just stretch you to your mental and emotional limits. It’s easy to forget that school will be over as quickly as it started. Once I began my career, ... Krista Martin, Collins Aerospace Answered Tuesday, July 28, 2020 at 5:38 PM Yes, it is very common to feel lost at some point during college studying engineering, especially as a female student. For me, it was about 2 ½ years in that I was incredibly lost and discouraged. Others seemed to be finding their groove while I was ... Kristen Sanderson, GE Digital Answered Tuesday, July 28, 2020 at 5:36 PM Everyone has a different experience with school and work, and I recommend that you do not let someone else’s experience dictate your path. You should look closely at the schools you are considering. Many have programs built around STEM degrees like ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Friday, April 26, 2024 at 3:11 PM Should I try to become an engineer even if I don't excel in math and science? I'm a female high school student who really loves things such as cars, motorcycles and planes but I didn't grow up with an aptitude for math like most people. I would give up easily in my math classes and take shortcuts. I can understand the principles behind it and appreciate how structural math is, but I can't apply it myself. I am ... Answers 15 Julia Lopez, Turner Construction Answered Tuesday, May 21, 2024 at 8:35 AM Absolutely! I was a lot like you when I was in high school. I was never great at math. I understood the concepts but when it came to apply it, I would always get lost. Then I was then diagnosed with dyscalculia my freshman year of college. Many students ... Karen Panetta, Tufts University Answered Monday, May 20, 2024 at 4:50 PM YES! Who says you are not good in math? Your grades? These are skills that you develop as you use them. If you learned to play an instrument or a sport, you know that those things take practice. Math is no different! You learn to use math and the more ... Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting Answered Friday, April 26, 2024 at 3:27 PM This question is always a difficult one to answer. It depends on what you mean by excel. If it means you don't enjoy math and science, then engineering may be difficult for you. If it means you enjoy math and science, but find it difficult, then ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Tuesday, November 28, 2023 at 8:47 AM Should I keep doing engineering if it's already getting harder? I’ve started taking engineering-related classes at school (I’m in 7th grade) but they are getting harder and I’m getting less excited about engineering because I’m not as good at the classes anymore. Should I keep going for engineering even if I find it hard and I don’t like it as much now? Or is there a way to like it again? Answers 14 Jennifer Polivka, Nike Answered Tuesday, November 28, 2023 at 9:29 AM This is a complicated question that requires a complicated answer! The short answer is: I would encourage you to separate your feeling of whether or not you enjoy engineering and whether you find engineering easy. It’s possible to still take joy in ... Margaret Byron, Penn State University Answered Tuesday, November 28, 2023 at 9:27 AM One of the things that makes engineering such a cool field is that it keeps getting harder and harder — and more and more interesting! You move from basic math and physics courses to higher-level topics like fluid dynamics, thermodynamics, mechatronics, ... Priscilla Bennett, Spire Answered Tuesday, November 28, 2023 at 9:25 AM You should not sell yourself short on the option to keep trying! Keep going…at least for right now. Sometimes we have a little hurdle we need to clear and then all is good again. I was a straight-A student for my entire K-12 school years, then I went to ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Tuesday, March 28, 2023 at 10:21 AM I really want to be an engineer, how can I be one? I'm 12 and really want to be an engineer but kids at school are saying that I will never make it as an engineer because I'm not smart enough so I would like to know how I could become an engineer. Where do I start? What can I do now? Answers 13 Irene Rexwinkle, Blue Origin Answered Tuesday, March 28, 2023 at 10:52 AM There’s this misconception that engineers are naturally super smart people (the way we’re portrayed in movies as people who can build/fix/code anything definitely doesn’t help), but the truth is that just about anyone passionate about solving problems ... Danielle Cooper, The Chemours Company Answered Tuesday, March 28, 2023 at 10:49 AM To be successful as an engineer, you don’t have to be the smartest in your class, but you do have to be one of the most determined. Engineering takes a lot of tenacity to stick with a problem and work through it methodically, even after you deal with ... Kim Linder, Honeywell FM&T Answered Tuesday, March 28, 2023 at 10:46 AM Anyone who wants to be an engineer can be one. Do not let others determine your path. What you can do now is take as many math classes as you can. If you need a tutor, ask your school. Find math games to play, and problem solving type puzzles – even ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Wednesday, February 24, 2021 at 8:35 PM Is being an engineer really hard? I’m hoping to become an engineer in the future and I’m figuring out my classes for when I start high school next year so I’m looking to do all the math and science I can. But I’m a little scared about math and physics as an engineer. How much math do you do in one day and is it hard math? I’m not great at doing math in my head and I have to ... Answers 13 Suzanne Schnaars, Verizon Answered Saturday, March 27, 2021 at 10:52 AM Dear Future Engineer What a great question, I too would often find myself asking the same question. So you are not alone in your thinking. Step one is to have faith in yourself. I was often paralyzed by my own fears of not knowing enough or having ... Cheryl Lanzer, Verizon Answered Tuesday, March 16, 2021 at 11:59 AM Being an engineer is all relative - meaning that it is what you think is hard, depends on what areas of academia you enjoy and what area of engineering you want to explore. Be open to ideas meaning you may pick one discipline and find out its not for ... Christine Frazier-Hollins, Chevron Answered Wednesday, February 24, 2021 at 8:54 PM Dear Aspiring Engineer: First things first - take a deep breath in and now let it out. Is Engineering hard? Well hard is relative. Anything new you try is hard it seems difficult at first, but as you learn and practice it becomes easier and easier. ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Wednesday, September 27, 2023 at 11:11 AM Was the difficulty of studying engineering worth it? Hello, I am Madeleine and I was wondering… Engineering sounds like fun and hard work. I am thinking about doing engineering. I am only in 8th grade so I have time, but I am scared. How difficult was it for you and was it worth it? Answers 12 Alicia Kempf, Honeywell Answered Wednesday, September 27, 2023 at 11:37 AM Is it hard? Yes! Many jobs are, but when you are doing something that you are passionate about then it is always worth it. Some of the most difficult challenges we are presented with in life are also the most rewarding when we accomplish our goals. Many ... Kasey Faust, University of Texas at Austin Answered Wednesday, September 27, 2023 at 11:36 AM Absolutely, it was worth it. It gave me the tools to be an asset for my community. And it opened up endless job opportunities and exciting careers. The degree is such a short time period relative to your career. Some classes will be harder than others. ... Sarah Wright, Chevron Answered Wednesday, September 27, 2023 at 11:34 AM It’s okay to be scared! The important thing is to not let being scared stop you from doing what you want to do. No matter what career path you choose, there will always be difficult moments and obstacles to overcome. So if engineering is what you want to ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Monday, January 29, 2024 at 2:53 PM Is engineering the right field for me? I've been interested in chemical engineering, particularly cosmetic chemical engineering, for some time now. I felt like this pathway would have been good for me as I enjoy science and math and like the lifestyle that it could provide (work, family/life balance, flexibility, hands-on, salary, etc). I'm a little conflicted because I often ... Answers 12 Sandra Hernandez, Chevron Answered Monday, January 29, 2024 at 3:20 PM If you enjoy science and math, I don’t see why you should stress about taking chemical engineering as a major! Engineering, as many other majors, requires hard work, but this doesn’t mean you need to leave your social life behind. Engineering offers a ... Bianca Stamps, Chevron Answered Monday, January 29, 2024 at 3:19 PM While the curriculum involved in pursuing engineering is rather difficult, I have found that it did not make me any less social. In some cases, it made me more social! In my junior and senior years, I worked more in our engineering building with fellow ... Leteshia Lowe Answered Monday, January 29, 2024 at 3:18 PM This is a fair question and I think a lot of people are scared off from majoring in engineering because of this and also fears of the difficulty of engineering classes. First, I would absolutely recommend you pick chemical engineering as a major, since ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Wednesday, November 26, 2025 at 12:12 PM What if I don't work fast enough? I used to love math, science, and problem-solving, but eventually I got frustrated because I couldn’t work as quickly as people expected. (The busywork in math is a particular torture!) I’m intelligent, but I recently learned that I have slow processing speed. I’ve started getting extra time on exams and limited assignments at school, and ... Answers 10 Amy Elliott, Oak Ridge National Laboratory Answered Wednesday, November 26, 2025 at 2:11 PM I'm so glad you have gotten accommodations for your processing style! The good news is, science and engineering are for all types of thinkers - deep thinkers like yourself included! I encourage you to continue to "learn how you learn" and explore what ... Kim Linder, Honeywell FM&T Answered Wednesday, November 26, 2025 at 2:10 PM The classes you are taking now are teaching you fundamentals and giving you the tools to solve complex, engineering problems. As long as you understand the concepts, that is knowledge you gain and will always have with you. Notice that I've said nothing ... Paige Sheppard, Parks Canada Answered Wednesday, November 26, 2025 at 2:07 PM Hi! I would suggest not working as a design consultant – I found there was usually a time crunch and urgency, working under pressure to finish things, but I feel like maybe working in research or in academia may align better with taking more time to go ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Monday, April 28, 2025 at 12:03 PM Do you have to be good at other subjects to be an engineer? I want to be an engineer and I’m good at math and science but I’m not good in reading and social studies. I don’t really like those other subjects. Do I need to be good at things other than math and science to be an engineer? I thought engineers just used STEM stuff but my sister says they use more things too. Answers 11 Nina Astillero, ERM Answered Monday, April 28, 2025 at 12:30 PM Hey! It's awesome that you're interested in engineering and that you're strong in math and science – that's a fantastic foundation! Seriously, those skills are super important for becoming an engineer, so you're already on a great track. Your sister does ... Patricia Mokhtarian, Georgia Institute of Technology Answered Monday, April 28, 2025 at 12:28 PM I won't lie to you: the better you are with words (reading and writing), the stronger your impact as an engineer will be! I cannot imagine an engineering job in which you won't need to communicate your ideas, plans, and accomplishments to other people. ... Wendy Sahli, Regulatory Affairs Professionals Society Answered Monday, April 28, 2025 at 12:23 PM You do not have to be good at every subject. I would encourage you to look for STEM in subjects that you aren’t great at. You’d be surprised how much STEM plays a role in history, and you can find books related to your interests or find STEM in the books ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Tuesday, June 27, 2023 at 10:00 AM I failed first semester math - should I stay in engineering? I’m studying industrial engineering and my first semester was hard but maybe I was the problem. I’ve always had rather poor math skills so it probably wasn’t wise for me to take engineering but, I’m not sure, I still did. I failed my math class my first semester and now I’m not sure whether to stay in it. I’m truly scared to fail by staying ... Answers 10 Wendy Sahli, Regulatory Affairs Professionals Society Answered Tuesday, June 27, 2023 at 10:30 AM This is a question I can relate to. In high school, I failed math miserably and was even told to drop calculus by my teacher. I had a hard time learning until I found out I’m auditory. I have the ability to remember sounds (like others with photographic ... Kristine Weed Answered Tuesday, June 27, 2023 at 10:28 AM Let me start off with my two experiences. In my junior year in college (very intense Electrical Engineering department), I realized that I am “average”. I studied and studied but my scores were always average. So, I decided to quit. I called my dad and ... Jamie Krakover, The Boeing Company Answered Tuesday, June 27, 2023 at 10:26 AM I got a D in thermodynamics in college as my final grade in the class. At the time I was HORRIFIED! I didn't get D's ever. I was an almost straight A student. But looking back I wear it as a badge of honor that despite the D, I still graduated and am a ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Monday, August 28, 2023 at 4:33 PM How do you deal with other kids thinking you're dumb? How do you deal with hate? Most kids at my school think that I am dumb because of my math grade. I can't do the formulas yet but I can do any other in my head. Please give me some advice. I want to be in IT when I grow up and I don't think I am good enough or smart enough. Answers 10 Kasey Faust, University of Texas at Austin Answered Monday, August 28, 2023 at 4:46 PM Not every class has to be your best class. You will excel at some topics and not other for may reason such as how the material is taught, whether you have a natural inclination towards that topic, or whatever else you have going on in your life (e.g., if ... Kim Linder, Honeywell FM&T Answered Monday, August 28, 2023 at 4:44 PM Remember that no one is born knowing everything. In fact, we are born knowing nothing and have to learn. Even people who will say mean things to others, have had to learn things at some point. We all have different paths in our lives, learn at different ... Wendy Sahli, Regulatory Affairs Professionals Society Answered Monday, August 28, 2023 at 4:43 PM Great question! I had the same situation. I also didn’t do well in math in high school, and I was asked to drop a class because I was failing. After some tutoring, I learned my learning capability was different from others. I am an auditory learner. In ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Tuesday, November 29, 2022 at 8:25 AM How can I deal with not fitting in or feeling like I'm not good enough? I thought I wanted to be an engineer, but the other students in my math and science classes seem to know a lot more than I do and I don't really fit in with them. Has this happened to you? It's hard. How can I make it better? If I make it to engineering school, will it still be like this? Answers 9 Karrin Felton, Naval Sea Systems Command Answered Tuesday, November 29, 2022 at 8:39 AM Everyone feels like they don’t belong at one point or another whether it be personal (with a circle of peers) or professionally (at work). In those moments, I remind myself that I am made to stand out. Focus on the strengths you have and use them to help ... Jamie Krakover, The Boeing Company Answered Tuesday, November 29, 2022 at 8:37 AM I think everyone feels like this at one time or another, and there's actually a name for it called imposter syndrome. I've felt this many times over the course of my career and schooling. But we have to remember everyone learns and grows at their own ... Delia Contreras, Honeywell Answered Tuesday, November 29, 2022 at 8:36 AM I totally understand the feeling. When I graduated from high school and went to the engineering school, I felt I didn’t belong because I was very behind. I came from a small town and the high school education wasn’t of great quality. I failed most of my ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Thursday, June 26, 2025 at 2:57 PM How do you keep going? I want to be an engineer but sometimes I feel like I want to give up. There are so many challenges and distractions these days. How do you keep going and persevering when school gets hard (or now your job I guess)? What are you persevering for? What inspires you to keep pushing? Looking for some encouragement and advice to keep at it. Answers 8 Nancy Post, Boston Consulting Group Answered Thursday, June 26, 2025 at 3:29 PM I think it's very natural when undertaking a long and (sometimes) difficult task, to feel overwhelmed and want to give up. It is especially helpful to determine your purpose. Are you going into engineering to create innovation that will help the world ... Beth Crisco-Kestner, Civil & Environmental Consultants, Inc. Answered Thursday, June 26, 2025 at 3:27 PM Defining and refining your Purpose is crucial to continued focus and success. In business, a company must define their purpose, mission and vision for existing. These are the statements that can be used to reflect back on when the business hits a bump in ... Kim Linder, Honeywell FM&T Answered Thursday, June 26, 2025 at 3:26 PM Great question! There is A LOT to deal with these days. I think you first need to understand your personality and what gives you a sense of accomplishment – do you need short term goals, long term, other? Also, what are the things you like to do that ...
EngineerGirl Team asked Amber Hall, City of Somersworth Added Wednesday, November 27, 2019 at 3:02 PM Do engineering professors really want students to fail their classes? I've heard that engineering professors and professors of related subjects are really tough and try to fail out half of the class. I don’t want to be in a field where people are trying to get rid of me. Is this really true? Do professors do this, and if so, why? And what do people do about it? Answers 9 Jacquelyn Berry, Collins Aerospace Answered Monday, August 10, 2020 at 9:29 PM This question already got a lot of good feedback regarding the difficulty of the curriculum so I will not repeat it all, but one professor sticks out to me. He was known to fail a lot of his classes and was the professor that sorted through those that ... Melissa Knothe Tate, University of New South Wales Australia Answered Wednesday, November 27, 2019 at 3:41 PM I love this question, because I can remember being an engineering student and wondering the same thing! Now that I can view the situation from the professor's perspective (being one myself), I can reassure you that most professors want their students to ... Kandace Stewart, Idaho Transportation Department Answered Wednesday, November 27, 2019 at 3:39 PM I will admit, there were times in my college career that I had professors who I could swear found pleasure in failing students in their class. I could almost picture them going home at night and laughing maniacally as they added another tally mark to the ...
EngineerGirl Team Added Thursday, April 28, 2022 at 2:02 PM Would you have done anything differently? Looking back at your time in school or your early career in engineering, would you change anything? Would you do anything differently, like that would have better prepared you for where you are now or led you somewhere else? Answers 7 Tina Swangphol, Chevron Answered Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at 3:25 PM I would polish up on my writing skills and communication skills early on during college or even in high school. I would learn acting skills that would help me with presentation and dealing with difficult people. Emotional Intelligence and how to win ... Carla Bailo, ECOS Consulting Answered Thursday, April 28, 2022 at 2:30 PM My advice: don’t hesitate – speak up and share your ideas. Everyone has a voice, use yours when you know you have a valid point. Debra Slocum, Retired Answered Thursday, April 28, 2022 at 2:28 PM Until I was a junior in college I thought the people who volunteered to do things in class knew what they were doing, even if it was a new subject. I finally asked a young man how he was going to do the problem the professor had asked someone to do? He ...